Every relationship has its own ups and downs. Some people make all the efforts possible in their power to save their relationship, but sometimes even then, it never works out. But that doesn’t mean we out an end and become bitter about the wonderful moments wave shared with somebody in the past. Rather than being upset about a failed relationship, people should focus on moving on and getting ahead in life. If the relationship has to happen, it will eventually turn out to be fine, but when it’s not destined to happen, nothing in your power can bring your ex back.
Take a step back
Most women face a difficult situation when they can’t move on from a failed relationship. Sometimes it’s best to leave it aside for a while because there is too much water under the bridge. One needs to make a clean break out of it and then revisit the topic later if required. At that time, there was just too much anger and too many bitter emotions so it’s best if you leave the situation for a while. After a few days or so, you can try to sort things out by contacting your ex and trying to talk things out. Until that time, the anger would have subsided and it would make way for a logical conversation. Leaving the situation for a few days will make you and your ex think from a broader aspect of mind and then you can take the next step. It gives you and your ex some time apart to think if you still miss each other or not. If there are unresolved feelings, you can talk about it with your ex and make a fresh start of your relationship once again. You need to talk about what went wrong initially before the break up or else the same issues will keep popping and disturb the love in the relationship. Once all the issues have been resolved, you can think about getting back.
Take your time
When a relationship has just ended, everyone needs some time off to get their space. If your relationship has failed because of a silly reason, there’s no point praying about it. The best way is to give it sometime and make some time for your own self. You must understand the fact that the time and efforts you have devoted into the relationship aren’t a complete waste. You need to believe that your ex will come back if you take some space. Most relationships go bitter because one of the partners is too nagging and doesn’t give the other some space. If that’s the case with you, the love hasn’t ended, there are only some differences created which would end after a while if you learn to give some space to your partner and yourself. So, make some plans for yourself, choose a hobby or hang out with your girls to take your mind off the relationships. It is best if you don’t think about it. Maybe after a few days, you will feel better and want to pick up things where you left it with your partner. Don’t consider getting back for the sake of it, but because you actually think your partner is the one for you. If your partner still isn’t willing to understand your point of view, you mustn’t dwell on it anymore.
Use the jealousy card
Men are logical creatures. They don’t dwell onto thoughts a lot like women so you need to show them actual evidence before you set out to bring them back. You could go out on dates with other men just for the fun of it and if he notices you having fun and moving on, he may want you back. The key element here is to let him know that you have moved on and you don’t mind exploring the idea of a new relationship. That will get him to start thinking and he might even get confused considering how have you managed to move on so quickly. Once a man begins to think on that road, they never turn back. He will try to get in touch with you and try to reconcile things. The only thing you must take care about when he tries to contact you again is that you don’t be too available for him. You have to take your time and make him prove to you that he really does want you back and all this is not only for show. He must woo you again and make sure that he is worthy of you.
Breakups can be tricky to deal with and sometimes you plan to get your ex can get back fire for you as well. If you really wish to patch things up with your ex make sure you really want this and then dedicate yourself into it. If it works out, then good for you, but don’t dwell on it for too long. If it has ended, let it pass and don’t waste your entire time on it. Maybe there will be better relationship prospects for you in the future or maybe love is just around the corner. Try to let it go and move on.