Cooperation is imperative for human existence. Be it any relation on Earth, cooperation is central to all. When it comes to men and women, they cooperate differently. It’s quite obvious that they will behave differently to an issue. Now, this fact should not lead to any difference between couples. Cooperation is essential in any relationship to succeed.
You might perceive women to be a little less matured, more emotional and uncooperative. Well, that logically implies that you are more matured and more practical, at least according to you. So, you can be a little more cooperative and understanding. Isn’t it? So, you can definitely foster a sense of mutual accomplishment. To prop up your relationship and create a nourishing harmony, you got to respect her differences that she has been ‘gifted’ with. Well, there is no magic in it! You have to cooperate with her to create a powerful, steady and robust alliance. In this respect, women expect men to cooperate in certain ways.
Do not be at odds; avoid competition
Marriages and relationships thrive when couples know the secrets of cooperating with each other. There should be no ego clash or competitive attitudes in a relationship. Do remember you guys love each other and should not be in a competition. Both of you should respect each other’s views to build up a strong relationship.
Do not be the boss
Do remember, you are not the conqueror of the world. She must also be having her priorities, goals, etc. Well, that does not mean that you have to forego your priorities, views, thoughts and opinions. You just have to make allowance for hers too. By supporting her priorities, you naturally become stronger and respectable in her eyes. Be flexible and reinforce mutual respect. Take out some time, a few minutes may be. Discuss and review your schedule with her and ask for hers.
Appreciate the difference
Well, when things go wrong, we often complain. However, when any argument or hostile situation crops up, you tend to forget cooperation thereby calling for competition. You might be blaming her and she might be throwing tantrums at you. However, how often do you share with her when something works well? Tell her concretely what’s going well; it will accomplish a lot. She also realizes that you are cooperating more. Hence, the difference is appreciated!
Confession and apology create the magic!
“I am sorry” means a lot. These are the 3 difficult words that can mend a relationship in a wonderful way. With genuine sincerity, apologize to her when you are wrong. It has the potential to heal even the stones in her heart. When you have hurt her, you should not assert your ego over her feelings. Instead, offer an apology!
Be a little more generous. “Thank you dear” are the timeless words that can act wonder. How much effort does it take? Generous gestures are always appreciated and cherished by women.
Refrain from deceiving
Deception is the worst thing that a woman likes! This is like an obnoxious gas to her. So, when a conflict arises, do not scream on her. Be a little thoughtful in your actions and words. Pick up the courage to confess the truth.
Make room for her
No doubt, her differences from you will always remain as those are intrinsic to her nature. You should not be troubled and annoyed because of her differences from you. She would be having different perspective compared to you and that’s what makes her different from you and that’s why you love her! Has she been the ditto person as you, have you loved her? Be a more adaptable and make room for both of you.
Adjustments are not too pricey
While you stay in a relationship, you have to make some adjustments or sacrifices you can say. Do not war over small issues. Instead, reach closure by giving her solutions a try. It’s kind of elongating your learning curve and accepting her solutions. Keep your solutions for future when something really crucial will come up.
Truly, cooperation positively impacts emotional coordination leads to a beneficial relationship. In order to share a better-balanced life and satisfying relationship, you need to look up to what she wants and the ways in which she is summoning cooperation from you.